Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Different Customs, Different Culture, Different Things


As you may have guessed, a majority of my day was spent continuing on my research report. The report seems to be coming along, just very slowly. With time the words and ideas will come together and fall in place. I am beginning to feel as if my hands are permanently attached to my keyboard, though. I arrive in the office each morning to respond to e-mails and begin writing my paper. When I go back to my room at night I write my blogs and am now working on projects for college. One benefit is my typing accuracy will be retained this summer. Instead of fumbling to regain the hang of typing out long papers, my hands will already know which keys to press in the fall.

This afternoon I had the pleasure of meeting the Director General of icipe, Dr. Christian Borgemeister. After having suffered a back injury in a car accident he was on sick leave for quite some time. The respect people throughout the office show him is remarkable. Our interaction was quick, but I felt honored for him to take time out of his busy schedule to even come and say hi to me.

Throughout my stay in Kenya I have been keeping a list of differences in customs and culture. Beyond the obvious differences such as wall plug-ins, there are so many little differences I notice on a daily basis. For starters, as I have discussed before, the time. When I say everything is done at a leisurely pace, I mean everything. For instance, lunch breaks usually last for an hour or more. People very slowly eat their food. I have yet to figure out how they can eat a plate of food so incredibly slow. Even just walking back from the supermarket—the steps taken seem in slow motion. The atmosphere at the work place is laid back and slow also. People take multiple breaks and never carry work home with them. The slowed pace is hard to get used to, but I think I have mastered the hang of it. My patience has definitely improved at the very least.

Culturally, greeting people is very different. I am still slightly confused on the whole greeting thing, but so far this is what I know. Handshakes have a weird twist to them. You shake the person’s hand, then grab it, then return to the position of a firm shake. Sometimes people do this and other times they don’t. When they do, I am thrown for a loop. I often fumble my way through the greeting, hoping they don’t notice my novice greeting skills. Other times, greetings are done with a hug. The hug consists of touching your cheek to both of their cheeks. I believe this is a British influenced custom, but I could be wrong. These hugs are always incredibly awkward for me and never feel quite right. My beginner skills are bound to shine through on this one.

There are many little things different as well. Keys look ancient, as in there are key holes and the types of keys girls wear as jewelry in the States. This also took me a while to get used to, as each hole is different and entering my room can sometimes be a challenge. Also, reliability of sources can never be counted on here. For instance, power comes and goes—sometimes for no reason at all. 

The way sentences are formed and how people refer to different articles confused me at first. The basics I have down, such as a napkin is called a serviette (French?) and when you say you are going to call someone you tell them you will flash them. The word have is normally replaced by the word take. So in Kenya, I take lunch with a group of people, I never have it. And the list continues…

Despite all of these differences whether cultural, customary, or others, I have come to understand we all share many similarities, connected by an unbreakable bond of human nature.

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